The idiva gave 7 pointers on when you shouldn't confess your feelings to your crush
1. Under the influence
If you are under the influence of alcohol or drugs, it's defintely a bad idea to ring up your ex and confess your most vulnerable thoughts. It's unlikely that it will end well.
2. They are committed
If you crush is already in a relationship, confessing your feelings is a big NO. Do not ruin another relationship for your selfish motives.
3. You have just come out of a relationship
You are probably in an emotionally vulnerable state and are navigating the ways of single life. Do not complicate it by inviting another potential heartache
4. They have just broken up
It goes without saying that if they have just broken up with someone do not put them in a difficult position by confessing your feelings. It could hurt you as well.
5. They are not on the same page as you
If you know that they want something different from a potential relationship and it's not what you are seeking, simply back off.
6. The attraction is one-sided
It could be a possibility that they dont feel the same way for you as you do for them. In such a scenario, you are simply setting yourself up for a rejection.
7. They don't treat you right
They know that you like them yet they don't treat you with respect or politneness. Do youself a massive favour and distance yourself from them.
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