This 33-year-old woman is still a virgin and she isn't religious at all

Lauren Harkins, a 33-year-old from Portland, Maine, has recently opened up about her decision to remain a virgin, stating that there's "nothing wrong" with being a late bloomer.

In an interview with Southwest News Service, Harkins emphasized that her choice has nothing to do with religious beliefs but is instead a personal preference shaped by her life experiences.

"I'm a virgin, but I'm not traditional," Harkins explained, noting that she is quite content with her life as it is. Growing up as an only child, she became accustomed to being on her own and never felt the need to actively pursue romantic relationships. "The twenties are such a confusing time," she said. "Everyone is figuring out careers and navigating all this stuff—sex just wasn’t something I wanted."

Harkins' approach to relationships was further influenced by the loss of her father, William, who passed away when she was a teenager. Instead of focusing on dating, she dedicated herself to exploring the world, funding her adventures through her late father's trust fund. "Recently, I've been to Morocco, Peru, the Cayman Islands, the Bahamas, France, Germany, and the Netherlands," she said, highlighting her love for immersing herself in new cultures. "Sex simply wasn’t a priority."

Now, however, Harkins feels ready to find a partner, but she remains firm in her commitment to maintaining high standards. "I think it’s important to have high standards in everything—romantically and otherwise," she stated. Despite being open to the idea of a relationship, Harkins insists she won't settle for anything less than a meaningful connection.

Harkins' decision to share her story stems from a desire to break down the stigma surrounding adult virgins. Since going public, she has received hundreds of messages from people in similar situations, offering her a sense of purpose in helping others feel less alone. "I am of sound mind and body, I’m not socially awkward or repressed, and quite normal despite my unique lifestyle," she said. "I’m just a late bloomer—it doesn’t mean there is anything wrong with me."ho is not religious — this is why I’ve never had sex